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You might have seen the big thing today is taking "selfies." That is if you take an image of yourself and share it with others if on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snap Chat, or any variety of other social networking ways of sharing.Taking and posting selfies is not a bad thing unless it is used in a bad way. Here are some things to keep in mind:Girls take more selfies than anyone else. Take a look at Facebook or Instagram, and you'll see.People posting selfies are looking for others to "like" the pictures they post. They search for people to remark that they: look right, wearing a fantastic outfit, are doing something funny, etc.. It is important to remember that many young people seek validation from others for their self-worth and self-esteem.
Teens can take pictures during a time where they may be feeling at the top of the world and their confidence at the moment is soaring so they take a bold picture, possibly doing something they wouldn't normally do. We have seen this happen before when someone requires a picture either drinking, revealing a body part, and even on some occasions committing a crime.On the flip side, they could be feeling deficient and have a picture that is not something they'd typically wish to share with other people.Everyone is doing it - adults and children alike; even actors.This may be a wonderful way to talk about your personality and your interests with others.It's important to remember any picture posted on social networking is out there; it's public, and odds are someone someday can discover it.
As we have seen recently from a few public figures, sending images either via text or posting may return to haunt you.Have a conversation with your adolescent about posting images. Keep an eye on what your teen is posting - occasionally our teenagers do not make the best choices in what they post. Prospective employers and schools may determine a lot about a person by looking them up on social media or even by just Googling someone.Have family rules and guidelines. Talk as a family what's appropriate and what is not. Discuss the safety and security issues around posting information and images. This is a good way to open the doorways of communication with a general discussion.